Hector’s adventures in China

So it seemed time for an update on Hector’s adventures in China.

The start of the week was a childcare nightmare. We had a tentative date to go back but this was before kindergarten restarted. After much panicing and some pleading we found a solution. Phew! This means that for the first time Hector is being looked after by an Ayi. For our readers not in China the word Ayi has some different meanings. It can mean Aunt, cleaner or childminder. We have always avoided having an Ayi unlike many of our colleagues with children of a similar age. We never felt an Ayi was the right fit for us or Hector. We liked the socialisation that Hector got from attending nursery. Hector has never had attachment issues possibly because he has gone to nursery from the age of 1. So we also felt there were benefits with an easier transition to school. Yes it is true that we have to deal with a lot of illnesses acquired from attending nursery. But ultimately we felt that starting younger meant developing a better immune system younger. The nursery that Hector attends is also mainly Chinese speaking and we were very keen on him becoming bilingual. No signs of this yet although he may say ‘bu’ for no which roughly translates to ‘not’! Nursery also has the benefit of providing a great variety of activities without anyone having to deal with the mess or without having to have an endless range of creative supplies!

We have not always seen eye to eye with the Ayis. There are the constant requests for jackets while at nursery instead of turning off the AC. Also Hector frequently runs around without even a shirt on at home perfectly happily. This resulted in us trying to find more indoor jackets when it is becoming quite warm as Hector has actually outgrown most of them. We thought that this one fitted. We were wrong…

When a 90cm child wears a 110 cm jumper

Hector also sometimes comes home with his fringe tied up. He refused a hair cut this week after coming home with his hair tied up and so this happened.

And then this happened…
An impromptu hair cut by the Ayi

These things would be unthinkable in the West but here we just kind of accept it. It does kind of highlight why we were pretty set on nursery. We knew Ayis had a reputation for not letting kids be independent. This has some benefits. Kids here seem to be more passive and more obedient. They are toilet trained earlier. (So far we call it a good day if he sits on the potty or toilet.) But they are also very reliant on adults and sometimes don’t even feed themselves (I should have taken some pictures to illustrate what does happen when Hector feeds himself). Hector got some pretty strong comments when we were on a week’s training as he covered himself in sauce. But to us it was normal and expected when a child eats independently. Once Hector got used to using a spoon you couldn’t get it away from him!

Mostly at the moment Hector is happiest when playing with something that moves. His addiction to trains continues. It’s probably best we didn’t actually call him Thomas so he can avoid the teasing his Dad got.

Fun with magnets
All toys must be thrown out of the box before play
Hector begins to master the balance bike

Further updates to follow on Hector’s adventures!

Adventures in Hangzhou (Because we can’t go anywhere else)

Travel to Hangzhou: The complete guide to the water city

So Katy already wrote about our trip to a tea plantation this weekend, so I thought it is long over due that I write about our two other trips around the city. Primarily to the home of a a long dead but quite eccentric Qing era merchant who built a rather elaborate and impressive home in the center of old Hangzhou. Perhaps more impressive is the fact that it’s survived all of the changes Hangzhou has faced in the 150 years since it’s construction. The home features a garden which includes an artificial mountain and cave network! Speaking of people trying to artificially replicate nature we also visited the artificial island sitting in the middle of West Lake known as 3 Pools Reflecting the Moon. It’s an island in the middle of a lake with a lake in the middle of it!

As Katy may have mentioned before we currently can not leave the city limits on pain of not being able to go to work for 14 days. With any luck they’ll change that soon, but for now we’ll have to keep ourselves entertained by all that Hangzhou has to offer within the city limits. Well…what it has to offer which has so far reopened.

So to get into this place we had to produce our green QR code and also fill out a rather convoluted app. In the attend the local staff got so fed up with trying to communicate with us in Chinese that they kind of just waved us in. Right now there is this rather strange thing in Hangzhou wherein’ some tourism sites require foreigners to sign in with their passport details. This is continuing to confuse and befuddle me, particularly as Foreigner’s like myself can’t even enter the country anymore and haven’t been able to do so for going on 17 days. So even the last of the last to make it in will have completed their two weeks quarantine. Then again the way Chinese people are treating the pandemic at this point is rather broad in spectrum. Some are wearing masks and living in terror of public transport should there be asymptomatic people…who are some how not creating new cases that are not asymptomatic. Whilst others are not really wearing masks, or like my own Chinese friends, completely ignoring even normal levels of hygiene. (I guess sharing food in the center is a traditional element of Chinese dining, I’m on board with it, but plunging chop sticks which have just been in your mouth into the same food other people are doing the same as…I don’t know that’s pushing it a bit, and that’s from a guy who regularly engages in 5 second rule.)

So anywho! We visited the house of the wealthy merchant. It was pretty cool. Of course this does sit neatly on the long long loooooong list of tourist attractions made for Chinese people for Chinese people (Other than the biggest attractions IE: The Wall, there is rarely more than a faint attempt at putting things up in English or accommodating non-Mandarin speakers) which is fine, it is China after all. They have more than enough domestic tourists to treat the rest of the non-Mandarin speaking world as an after thought. So this site, like many is really enjoyable for visual spectacle than actually being informative/historically enlightening. Luckily I’m familiar with the era and the man that built this house so some dots could be connected.

When this place was built Hangzhou was a good 2 or 3 centuries past it’s glory days. During the 10th to 14th centuries Hangzhou was one of the most populated and wealthiest cities on the planet. Far enough from the ongoing raids and wars of the north, close enough to the ocean and located at the terminus of the Grand Canal (A system of rivers which go all the way up to Beijing) Hangzhou was able to capitalize on trade. Throw in the fact that Hangzhou was home to some of the best tea plantations and silk manufacturers in the world at the time, it made Hangzhou the locus for a lot of what was the Chinese economic power house (Of the 8th – 17th centuries specifically) of the…well world. Still though Hangzhou’s days of glory were well past it by the mid 19th century Hu Xueyan managed to become very wealthy as he held a controlling stake of Hangzhou’s biggest shopping street.

East West Planners Hangzhou Tours

I really wish I had taken more pictures here come to think of it. Most notable were two false mountain peaks in the style of nearby Huangshan (Yellow Mountain) and a small cave network. Even the steps leading up to the second floor and his tea-house have been sculpted to resemble a pathway carved up the side of a mountain!

The following week we visited Three Pools Reflecting the Moon.

Top 7 Places to Visit in Hangzhou, China Three Pools Mirroring the Moon
Note I did not take this photo. I mean. Obviously.

Constructed by a variety of different poets/government officials over several centuries. It’s actually sculpted in the shape of the Chinese character Shi (ten). It’s covered in little temples and rather stagnant water. In the past it was the site of a Buddhist monastery and temple where people would release captured fish/birds as a form of ritual sacrifice (Well without the death of an animal atleast). Supposedly it gets its name from the fact that the stillness of the enclosed lake (Within a lake) reflects the moon beautifully at night. To be honest I am a bit skeptical of this, I don’t think I’ve seen the moon once since I moved to Hangzhou between all of the overcast and light of the city. Still I imagine even 50 years ago it could live up to it’s name sake!

Katy slightly aghast at the crowds present at the site.

Indeed it was quite a popular destination amongst the locals. Whom are I assume mostly locals as travel between provinces is still rather restrictive/complicated at the moment.

It’s a rather peaceful place and does give you a really good panoramic view of the lake and all of the city/mountains that surround it.

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Oh one other place we visited was the tomb of Yue Fei. Yue Fei is quite famous within China (And especially Hangzhou) as a great general who defended the ailing Song Dynasty from marauding hordes, protecting China time and time again…until the Emperor decided he didn’t like him and had him murdered. A few decades later the Emperors successor thought it best to dig up his remains and re-bury him in a proper monument/temple complex.

Yuefei Temple
The man himself…well a statue of him.

The complex is relaxing and rather nice and considerably less elaborate than the Vietnamese tombs we visited in Vietnam (I should probably make a post about that sometime) However it interestingly has a lot of the same features, such as this honor guard of statues.

General Yue Fei Temple Tour

Perhaps most interesting/unique is the inclusion of a few statues of the supposed traitors who got Yue Fei killed in the first place. Cast in iron (And occaisonally refurbished over the past 800 years. They kneel dejectedly towards the burial mound of the hero they wrong.

朱仙镇-岳飞庙佞臣跪拜谢罪| Mapio.net

岳飞庙前秦桧跪像,500年来日日挨打- 每日头条
They occaisonally get plaques put up around their necks berating them. Not that they probably care too much since they’ve been dead for nearly a millennia and in life suffered no consequences for their ‘poor behaviour’.

So that’s pretty much what we’ve been getting up to around Hangzhou over the past few weeks since we got out of quarantine! Hurray! Now to do more Chinese lessons.

Time for tea

By Katy

So one of the things that Hangzhou is famous for is their tea. As we’re not allowed to leave the city right now we are getting the chance to do some of the things that we hadn’t got around to before. This Sunday’s trip was to the tea plantations. After getting dropped off in slightly the wrong place we managed to get to where we needed to be. Unfortunately getting into the main village required us to both show our healthcode and give our passport number. We would be fine with this if it was also required by Chinese people but currently there are a small minority of places treating foreigners differently. This is particularly frustrating as there is absolutely no logic to it at this point. Even under the assumption that a foreigner had somehow managed to avoid quarantine (very unlikely given the consequences of getting caught doing so) it is now impossible for a foreigner to have been here for less than 14 days due to the flight ban. Fortunately most places do not do this and we have never experienced any ‘personal’ racism.

Anyway, we got past this and were rewarded with the incredibly beautiful tea terraces. It really is amazing to have such beautiful countryside so close when you live in a city. We knew we were going the right way as we saw many tea pickers wandering the same way! You can actually go and pick tea but we decided to just have a little walk and then go to a teahouse. We had what passes for Chinese afternoon tea and an incredibly expensive cup of green tea. The food was good but unfortunately the tea was somewhat disappointing. We practised our Chinese which is getting increasingly better now that we are trying to practise every day! Perhaps I’ll write a post about learning Chinese at some point…

The dragon well
The tea terraces
The teahouse
A waterfall!

The other striking thing about being out was the very relaxed attitude to wearing masks. Many people are not even wearing them at all now. Our complex is also starting to relax their protocols and have even opened the main gate again. All of this is in stark contrast to school where we will be required to wear a mask at all times. Nevertheless, it seems a very positive sign that the risk of contracting the virus is now very low.